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Following the Spirit on a WHIMM: The Story of the Washington Home Inclusive Monthly Mass

When the 2018 Pennsylvania report on clergy sex abuse was released, Jane Malhotra and her Aunt Mary Patrick were dismayed. How could this have happened? Where was hope to be found after such devastating news about their church and church leaders was revealed? So from a place of desolation, they talked, they prayed, and they read a book by Mary’s sister, Anne E. Patrick, SNJM, titled On Being Unfinished. Though Sr. Anne had passed away two years prior, reading the text at that particular time was extremely powerful for Jane: “it basically made me realize that when I feel that desolation, there’s an invitation from God, from the universe, from that divine Holy Spirit, to respond creatively.” 

While they didn’t yet have a clear vision of what they would be called to do, Jane and Mary felt a pull to follow the Spirit in a new direction. “Mary and I heard about a Mass organized with the Roman Catholic Women Priest Movement that was taking place in Maryland,” shared Jane. “This was the first time there was one in the DC area that we had heard about. So we went to this Mass at somebody’s house, and it was so… electric.” 

After experiencing this type of liturgical celebration, Jane and Mary felt as though more people needed access to an inclusive and intimate Liturgy in a home setting led by a woman priest. So they decided to try their hand at some organizing. “Mary and I said, all right, let’s do three. We’ll just try for three. And then that’ll be it. And then more people will get to know what it’s like to see a woman priest in action.” 

What started off as “just three” Liturgies in early 2019 has since become over five year of monthly inclusive home gatherings, and the leadership circle– affectionately called the Donut– has no plan to slow down. The group has even expanded to host bi-annual Liturgies at a local park on Massachusetts Ave., calling the Liturgy Mass on Mass. “It’s fun to be in the park outside, and it’s beautiful. And then also we can try to encourage a bigger group to come together. Our next Mass on Mass is October 12th at 4pm, at the park at 35th and Fulton streets NW,” Jane added, “if you happen to be in town. All are welcome.” While the home Masses usually cap at about 25 people, the outdoor Masses have attracted up to 70.

Each WHIMM Liturgy has a women priest preside, and they use the Comprehensive Catholic Lectionary, which is being developed by the Women’s Ordination Conference. But it is the intimacy of the home setting, said Jane, that really sets the Mass apart. “Going to people’s houses,” she shared, “I feel like I know a side of them that I never would have known if I had not sat in their living room with them, and cried with them, or laughed with them, or shared tea afterwards out of their grandmother’s cups. It’s really a deeper community connection than I’ve ever had.” And of course, donuts and other refreshments after Liturgy are a must. “I wonder,” Jane pondered playfully, “if Jesus only had an hour to spare on a Sunday morning, would He show up for the donut hour over the Mass? I feel like that’s where everybody gets to talk. It’s where, you know, there’s no one-step-up altar. Nobody in special robes or anything. You know, it’s all the people being together and sharing stories.” And it is this sense of community, shared Jane, that keeps people coming back.

As our conversation started to wind down, I asked Jane if there was anything else that needed to be shared about the origins and the future of WHIMM. While she wasn’t quite sure how the group will evolve five or ten years down the line, the uncertainty did not spark any fear. Instead, there was a sense of trust that, just as the origins of the movement had begun with a call from the Spirit, the future will be Spirit-led as well. Then, Jane thoughtfully encouraged me to read her Aunt Anne’s book. “I should warn you though,” she added, “it’s a little dangerous. You’ll want to find yourself doing something that is sometimes a pain in the ass! But it’s good,” she assured me. “She [Anne Patrick] planted in us this idea that despair is always an option, but it’s not very fun, so when you see things that are wrong in the world, you can turn away from it, you can despair, or you can make something new.” 

WHIMM Masses are held monthly in the D.C. area, and can be attended both in-person and via zoom. If you are interested in learning more, visit their website at https://whimmdc.com/.

Focus Question

  1. The organizers of WHIMM felt the Spirit calling them to create an inclusive home Liturgy in the D.C. area. Where do you feel the Holy Spirit beckoning you? 

Do you know of or belong to a community that you would like to see highlighted? Reach out to Martha at martha@futurechurch.org.

Celebrating Mary Magdalene and Hidden Women of the Lectionary

On Thursday, October 3, 2024 FutureChurch was welcomed by the Caravita Community in Rome to host a prayer service entitled “Throw Open the Doors and Make Space at the Table: Celebrating the Hidden Women of the Lectionary.”

Through scripture readings, story telling, and prayer, the prayer service names and uplifts women whose stories are omitted, truncated, relegated to a weekday, misrepresented, made optional, or otherwise hidden by the lectionary.

FutureChurch Program associate, Martha Ligas, preached on the power of our names and being called by name. The music ministry was offered by Olivia Hastie and Russ Petrus of FutureChurch. Additional readers include Katie Lacz, Rose Lue, and Lucy Rieger. The prayer service concludes with a ritual blessing that names each participant and sends them forth to proclaim the resurrection.

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Litany of Those Who Accompanied Us

 

On the morning of Friday, October 5, 2024, the FutureChurch team along with Rita Houlihan, Lucy Rieger, and Rose Lue gathered at the Church of Saint Sabina in Rome for a simple prayer service to uplift the names of those whom we carried us on our journey to “bring Mary Magdalene to the Synod.”

We are grateful to everyone who contributed to our “Mary Magdalene Goes to the Synod” campaign to support our efforts to expand the lectionary and offered names for us to carry with us during our travels. It was an honor and sacred experience to carry these names with us and to pray with them: 

Ann

Marie Reisert Bailey

Victoria Baldwin

Josue Behnen, OSB

Hermilia Benavides

Sam Bowns

Sr. Mary Brinkman

Margaret Brogden

Sr. Anne Campbell

Mary Cara

Anita M. Caspary, IHM

Richard Conley

Geraldine Cortissoz

Pat Coughlin

Beverly Cramb

Eleanor Dallimore

Lydia Tinajero Deck

Lizzie Berne DeGear

Sr. Andre Dembowski, RSM

Anna DePierro

Mary Gallagher Dolan

Sr. Barbara Doherty, SP

Rosemarie Dougherty

Jacquelyn Dubay, OSB

Katherine Elsner

Kenny F

Margaret Fissinger

Patricia Flood

Deceased members of FutureChurch

FutureChurch founders and members past and present

Grandmother’s Mother

Carmen Golden

Antoni & Maria Gozdz

Sr. Hope Greener

Margaret Ellen Grellis

Angela Hastie

Olivia Hastie

Marmete Hayes

Kathrene Blish Houlihan

Rita Houlihan

Sr. Rita Anne Houlihan, RCN

Mary Margaret Howard

Jane Wolford Hughes

Sisters of the Humility of Mary

Susan Jensen

Sr. Theresa Kane, RSM

Mary Keldermans

Sr. Kate Kuenstler

Sr. Madonna Kolbenschlag, HM

Rosalie Kuns

Cecelia Lavinghouse

Martha Ligas

Andrea Long

Louis

Rita Lyons

Mary Magdalene Advocates

Mary Magdalene Spirituality Center

Crista Mahoney

My Mother

Sr. Molly Neville, SNJM

Sr. Katherine O’Donnell

Carolyn Osiek, RSCJ

Frances Padberg, SSND

Sr. Patricia Parachini

Yvonne Parrino

Sr. Anne Patrick, SNJM

Emaleen Patten

Paula

Rose Pentecost

Beryl Petrus

Rosalie Reinhardt

Sr. Mary Reuter, OSB

Lucy Rieger

Deborah Rose

Patrick Ryan

Mary Agnes Sammon

Sr. Christine Schenk, CSJ

Margaret Bernice Schilling

Sr. Mary Schrader

Mary Schultz

Sr. Maria Tardani, OP

Todd

Sr. Margie Tuite, OP

Nickki Valdez

Mary Magdalen Valuckas

Sr. Mary Anthony Wagner, OSB

Mary Walek

Sr. Miriam Ward

Monica Willis

 

A Prayerfully Persistent Witness

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FutureChurch program associates Martha Ligas and Olivia Hastie facilitated a creative prayer service where stories and scriptural passages featuring biblical women were read aloud, followed by a few lines of prayerful reflection. A reading of the story of Shiphrah and Puah was followed by the prayer: “Let us learn from your story of courageous resistance.” For the story of Mary, the Mother of God, the petition was: “We add our yes to yours.”

Ligas also offered a reflection on the power of one’s name, and of being called by name.

They are our loved ones and friends. We are praying for them.

By Olivia Hastie

Russ, Martha, and I were standing in front of Saint Peter’s Basilica holding the banner with the names of women so many of you asked us to carry with us in the spirit this week in Rome. We had just arrived at the Vatican and were getting ready to make our way to the Dicastery for Divine Worship to deliver our open letter, freshly caffeinated after cappuccinos. 

We snapped a few photos and then had Lucy and Rita hold the sign, but before we could get that far a strange man started to walk toward us. Before I completely realized what was happening, he held out what looked like a wallet and flashed his badge:

“Vatican politzia,” he said, “What is this?”
“A banner with names on it,” we responded.
“Who are these people? What happens to them?” his partner chimed in.
“Well, they are our loved ones and friends. We are praying for them.” 

After asking us to move outside the square to be in accordance with Vatican rules and procedures, I couldn’t stop thinking about their question: “Who are these people? What happens to them?” At first it was funny to me. A silly story about when the Vatican police almost removed us for violating the rules.

But his questions kept percolating: Who are these people? What happens to them?

Martha and Olivia carry banners of Mary Magdalene and FutureChurch honorees outside the Basilica of St. Praxedes.

These are the names of women who have kept on keeping on in and around a Church that excludes them. These are the names of women who have come before and serve as beacons of spirituality, joy, hope and courage. These are women who embody the spirit of Mary Magdalene – a love for God, the desire to find God, and the ability to preach about where God is operating in their lives. 

And what happens to them? Well, we pray for them. But not merely a prayer of recognition, a prayer of naming. They are here with us, they are loved by us, they have shown us the way.  

When we walked into the Dicastery for Divine Worship, up to the Synod Secretariat, past the Trevi Fountain, to the Church of Saint Mary Magdalene, past the Pantheon, and to the Piazza Navona. We carried the banner and honored their names – women of wisdom and inspiration. 

The spirit of Mary Magdalene has impacted so many without recognition. And when asked how or why this work is important, I just think of that banner. How many more women will be empowered to share their gifts after seeing themselves reflected in the lectionary through the commissioning of Mary Magdalene? 

Morning One in Rome: A Pop-In at the Curia and the Reward for a Little Courage

By Martha Ligas

Before the start of this fourth and final session of the Synod on Syndality, the delegates gathered for a retreat in preparation for their work ahead. During the retreat, Fr. Timothy Radcliffe, OP, reflected on Resurrection

“Without Mary, they would not have come to the tomb. She declares that the Lord is present.”  

There is no doubt about it: We need Mary Magdalene– her voice, her story, and her witness to Resurrection. Without Mary Magdalene, we would not have come to the tomb. Without Mary Magdalene, the story of the Resurrection isn’t complete. 

Yesterday was the FutureChurch team’s first of four full days in Rome during this opening week of the Synod. When we woke up in the morning we headed out to visit the Dicastery for Divine Worship right off of St. Peter’s Square. There are 16 different dicasteries in the Curia of the Roman Catholic Church, and each one exists to spread Catholic doctrine and to defend the Church from heresy. I can honestly say that it’s a place I never imagined I would be. 

But yesterday we had a mission– bring Mary Magdalene to Rome. Our FutureChurch community is counting on us to deliver. So with shaky confidence we found our way to the right office and asked to speak with someone from the Dicastery. While our team had reached out on multiple occasions requesting a meeting, we had never heard back. So there we were: showing up unannounced to the Vatican. But we were sent up an elevator and greeted by a gentleman who directed us to a room off the main entrance. There, we were met by an assistant to Cardinal Grech, the prefect of this particular Dicastery. 

The FutureChurch team poses outside the offices of the Dicastery for Divine Worship

During our meeting, we explained with poise and with joy how important it is that the full story of Mary Magdalene’s Resurrection proclamation be told on Easter Sunday morning. Easter Sunday is when our churches are the most full! What would it mean if, in packed churches all across the world, Catholics everywhere heard Jesus call Mary Magdalene by name? How would this naming reverberate within and beyond the walls of the church? How would this naming resonate with young girls sitting in the pews, young girls who may not realize Jesus knows their name, too? 

To our surprise, we found a friend at the Dicastery. Our conversation partner nodded along enthusiastically, took our prayer cards of Laura James artwork, and retrieved a lectionary to clearly see what we were talking about and asking for. He understood the request, was grateful for the conversation, and promised to take our letter and literature to the dicastery at large. It was all we could have asked for in a pop-in at the Curia, and we were honored as always to carry our community with us in our advocacy. 

For Fourteen-year-old Me

By Olivia Hastie

During my teen years, spiritual growth was enmeshed with an education centered in complementarity. I was taught a passive faith – incurious and submissive. It frustrated me, to love God and to know that I was loved by God, but confined to gender norms that kept me from doing the things I wanted to – from being the person I wanted and was called to be. I truly couldn’t imagine that 10 years later, I would be packing my bags to go to Rome to be there for the opening of the Synod. 

It’s quite emotional for me honestly. 

Because, when I was fourteen, I never would have thought that I could play a role in shaping the Church, as small as that role is. I never would have believed that I, a young woman, could participate in the Synod even from the outside. It never would have occurred to me that there were others like myself, called to engage and transform their traditions. And, I never would have believed that in that big room, together, playing an equal role with bishops and clergy, are women carrying the stories and hopes of those on the margins who’ve come before us in faith. 

The Catholic Church is an ever fraught and uncomfortable institution, but today as I write sitting at my gate at Logan Airport, I have hope. I have hope that, even without immediate outcomes, our voices will carry. I have hope that our work to expand the lectionary, and support our partner organizations will leave our communities better than where we found them. 

During this trip, Russ, Martha, and I will continue our work making a way where it feels like there is no way. 

I will do it for fourteen-year-old me, who felt like God couldn’t love her in the same way God loves boys, just because she was a girl. 

And I do it for Mary Magdalene who proclaimed the good news all those years ago and has never received the credit she is due. I believe that movements, like ours, to include women in their rightful place in the lectionary, will have ricochet effects that will elevate the status and contributions of women throughout history and in our world today.

Mary Magdalene is going to the Synod, and what a blessing and honor it is to get to go with her. 

Going to Rome for a Meeting that We’re Not Invited To: A Brief Tale of Church Reform

By Martha Ligas

The other day I went to get a haircut. My hairdresser, a lovely lady whom I enjoy chatting with but don’t yet know well, made a comment about next week’s weather, and I casually mentioned that I wouldn’t be in town next week.

“Oh, where are you going?”
“To Rome! I’m excited.”
“For work or for fun?”
“For work.”
“What type of work do you do?”

At this question, I paused. How could I possibly begin to explain to someone outside of the progressive Catholic Church reform world what I am doing in Rome next week? So, I stumbled through the next 30 seconds of conversation.

“Well…there’s a big meeting with the Pope that is happening in Rome next month.”
“Oh cool. Will you meet the Pope?”
“Well…probably not.”
“But you’ll be in the meeting?”
“Nope, not in the meeting either.”
“So….?”
“Well, we’re basically going to be outside the meeting…supporting the meeting, but also voicing our frustration about who isn’t in the meeting, and what they aren’t talking about.”

I knew that this wasn’t a great answer, but it seemed to be enough for my hairdresser. She smiled and nodded, and then changed the subject to something a little easier for us to talk about. Though we moved on pretty quickly, the conversation has been on my mind all week.
Why are we going to Rome when we aren’t Synod delegates? What good is it, to spend the money and take the time to fly across the Atlantic when we aren’t in the meeting anyway? What’s the point of the journey?

Will FutureChurch’s presence in Rome catalyze a conversation about women’s ordination on the Synod floor? Maybe. But probably not.

Will FutureChurch’s presence in Rome inspire the Dicastery to expand the lectionary to include the stories of hidden women in Scripture? I hope so, but we can’t say for sure.

Will FutureChurch’s presence in Rome inspire movements of reconciliation between the Catholic Church and the LGBTQ+ community that it has so often harmed? I wish, but I don’t actually think so.

If we’re expecting immediate results from our presence in Rome this week, I think we’ll be sorely disappointed.

And yet, without a shadow of a doubt, I know in my very being: Our presence in Rome this week matters.

It matters that we will be there, carrying a banner with the names of all of the women traveling with us in Spirit.

It matters that we will be praying together in hope that women’s voices of Scripture and of today will be heard in our Sunday liturgies.

It matters that we will be partnering with other church reform organizations as a collective and uniform body representing a new way forward.

It matters that we will physically– bodily– be present to this moment of Church history, showing up with our whole selves to say yes, we support synodality, but only when the doors are thrown wide open to the voices of all.

Because though we are only a few, we carry with us the prayers and the hopes of thousands in the FutureChurch community. We carry you with us, in our hearts and in our voices and in our courage to point the way towards a more inclusive church. We stand on the shoulders of giants who have done this work for ages, and we do this work with the hope that our children will never have to.

So no, we aren’t going to be in the big meeting. But our presence in Rome matters, our bags are packed with our clothes and our laptops and all of your prayers, and we are ready to say hello to the Eternal City.

And hey, maybe if we’re lucky we’ll even spot the Pope.